In the Words of Donald W Winnicott "No child needs a prefect parent to have a perfect is to be on the short road to Psychosis. The job of a parent is to let down a child in a structured way, to introduce them to the misery's of existence" Donald Winnicott he had a lot …
you'd never shout just because it started raining - even though rain can be horrible, because you've learnt to expect rain. The same should apply to everything. Don't only expect rain, expect betrayal, infamy, sadism, theft, humiliation, lust, greed, spite.. One will stop being so angry when one learns the true facts of the misery of life
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